Whether you are planning a wedding yourself or with the help of a wedding coordinator and you feel that you have prepared everything perfectly, it may happen that some issues which will not go exactly as planned. Always take this alternative on your mind and do not let them spoil your dream day. Nothing is more important than your love and the little problems always have a solution. Let’s have a look at what can happen to you on during your wedding day and how to fight with it.
Chapter Two: Children
There are thematic weddings where the presence of the children illustrates the overall atmosphere. For example, a gypsy wedding, without children probably wouldn´t be so authentic. However, for the vast majority of weddings the children seem to be a risk factor. Even though the brides (the grooms are not interested in such a detail), the children eliminate with some logical request in the invitations, at least one friend, a cousin, a sister pushes the child out there. This is a major breakthrough and the brides retreat under the pressure of the world that will ask “how Ms. XY could bring her baby”. Some brides set an age limit with the idea that babies are only sleeping, kadding, blushing and being breastfed. In a burst of emotions, they forget that babies are screaming and crying. On the other hand, they represent the smallest evil and in addition, you do not have to pay extra meal or provide a seat at the table. If the children must be at the wedding, then make sure
that the guardian is appointed during the wedding ceremony.
The right equation is one child = one guardian. During the banquet, definitely do not give them a separate table, not even in the next room. Let them sit right with their lawful responsible representatives. During the party, it is useful to count with a special place for the children outof the main hall, where, even though they will fool around , the process of wedding celebrations won´t be disturbed. I point out that in historic buildings you should invest in professional nanny services so,you do not have to invest in fines or compensation for destroyed property. Anyway, you can take advantage of the children. On the other hand, they look cute like flower girls, these are the ones who scatter the petals when the bride arrives or as the ring bearers (a little babyboy in a suit is a sweet issue) and they look good on the pictures. Children have one more important function, and it is entertain the older guests who cry out the ceremony, procrastinate the modern menu at the feast, but then they start to feel uncared for. Good time to point out inconspicuously to the presence of the children and give them time with the youth. I experienced a wedding where the cute boy took the position on the back of the priest whom saw for the first time in his life. Everyone seemed to be all right, so I closed my eyes for a moment and only listened to it and it was really beautiful ceremony.