Whether you are planning a wedding yourself or with the help of a wedding coordinator and you feel that you have prepared everything perfectly, it may happen that some issues which will not go exactly as planned. Always take this alternative on your mind and do not let them spoil your dream day. Nothing is more important than your love and the little problems always have a solution. Let’s have a look at what can happen to you on during your wedding day and how to fight with it.
Chapter Three: Alcoholism
The wedding must be treated with the assumption that all guests are alcoholics, and in an indefinite moment they can reverse the course of things. I say that readiness. Each wedding usually consists of three phases. The first part is upon guests arrival. Families get acquainted. Guests are refreshed. This is the phase where the least likely to be threatened by the drunk guests who will demand a start of the party. But we must not underestimate it. It is enough that the groom’s group extend its own bachelor party till the wedding day, and that is likely to be a problem. What can you do? Include hostesses, promise them an extra bonus if they manage to make this group out of weddings in an absurd conversation. Ask the catering manager to serve them a ton of meat and a hectoliters of coffee. Command the best man to speak to them. The second part of the wedding is a feast. Here’s more risk. If you register a drunk guest, make sure he/she is not in the list of speakers or that he/she can´t self-capture the microphone. Talk to the waiter to give him/her to drink something similar in color but without a splash of alcohol. Give a drinker the person who will guard him/her and help with difficult tasks such as moving to the toilet and back. Continue in ambient music, definitely the DJ can not play anything that even looks like dance music. After the feast, the party begins. The percentage of drunkards is increasing. You can not do anything anymore, perhaps you are subliminally sending signals that you are ordering a taxi or water or taking a walk in the fresh air. It is very bad if the main wedding moderator is drunk. A man usually chosen by a groom. A person who enjoys a certain privileges, even though no one, including himself, understands the third announcement of the program. Either you have a second moderator’s backup or you have ordered a wedding coordinator and he/she takes over this honest job. The Wedding Coordinator is also good at ensuring that all guests come to their bed or at least to places where they claim to be overnight. From my experience, it’s a good idea to go round the last call through the garden, the basement, the toilets, catering facilities, the production room, the parking lot and the stairs and the ceiling. At the weddings of specific alcohol-related nationalities, I’m preparing a whole drunken backup plan and how many times I’m really grateful for it.